"You must first accept that you are without a body-mind and that you are subtle. That sense must be instilled in you." - Nisargadatta Maharaj
At some point we must move beyond if we are to move on. To really get it we need to go beyond form and abide in what is so subtle and so obvious it is usually missed. That doesn't mean our mind-body practices are irrelevant or unreal, they just aren't ultimate essence, the key to Dao.
Rodney J Owen